The Relationship That Changed Everything For Me
I want to ask you something.
Do you have a relationship with your higher self — a real one? Not a concept. Not something you think about during meditation. A living, breathing connection that you actually work with.
Because that relationship — the presence or absence of it — is the difference between almost having and actually having. Between almost getting there and getting there. Between the life you're building and the life that keeps feeling just out of reach.
I know this firsthand.
What It Was Like Before
There was a time in my life when I was sitting in a room full of anxiety and dysfunction.
I was a psychic. I had gifts. I had knowing. And I was still lost.
What was missing wasn't more hustle, more figuring it out. What was missing was a vibrant, alive connection to my own higher self. The part that can see beyond what the human part of me is too close to see anything at all.
When I built that relationship, everything changed. Purpose became consistent. Joy became consistent. I started showing up regularly and expansionally. Not as surprised visitor. As a natural result of being in alignment with who I actually am.
What Is the Higher Self, Really?
If you're someone who prays, you already understand this.
The higher self is that liaison between you and the divine. It's the part of you that exists beyond the noise, beyond the fear, beyond the day-to-day static of being human. It knows your blueprint. It knows what you came here to do. And it is always, always available to you.
Most people relate to their higher self the way they relate to a distant relative — they know it exists, they think about it occasionally, but they don't have a real working relationship with it.
What I'm talking about is different. I'm talking about a daily, active, living relationship. The kind where you check in before you make decisions. Where you ask before you act. Where you've learned to feel the difference between your ego talking and your higher self guiding.
That's the relationship that changes everything.
How I Built Mine
I didn't build this relationship overnight. It took years of practice, of showing up, of learning to get quiet enough to hear.
Here's what worked for me:
Daily check-ins. Every morning before I do anything else, I connect. I ask: What do I need to know today? What am I being guided toward? I listen before I act.
Theta work. As a four-time certified Theta practitioner, this modality completely changed how I access higher guidance. It's the most direct route I've found to that deep, clear knowing.
Trusting the downloads. When something comes through — an idea, an impulse, a knowing — I act on it. Even when it doesn't make logical sense. Especially then.
Treating it like a relationship. I show up consistently. I don't just reach out when I'm in crisis. I tend to it daily, the way you tend to any relationship that matters.
The more I showed up for it, the more it showed up for me.
What Changes When You Have This
Everything.
I overcame cancer. Twice. I built businesses from nothing. I created a relationship so aligned and beautiful it still takes my breath away. I've helped hundreds of entrepreneurs stop efforting and start flowing.
None of that happened because I worked harder. It happened because I learned to work with something greater than myself — and then I got out of the way.
When you have a real relationship with your higher self, decisions get easier. Fear gets quieter. The right people show up. The right opportunities land. Life stops feeling like something you're pushing through and starts feeling like something you're being carried by.
That's what's available to you.
Not someday. Now.
LeeAnn Romine is a professional psychic, spiritual mentor, and certified business coach with 40+ years of experience. She works with visionary entrepreneurs who are ready to stop efforting and start creating with elegance and ease.
